Tuesday, June 18, 2013
No matter how bad the situation seems always try to rememeber that good things can come from shit. Manure is used on gardens for fertilizer so essentially it is crap that helps things to grow. Mushrooms grow in poop. I love mushrooms!
And so my story that began as what I felt was a pretty crappy hand to be dealt has ended up maturing into a new career and happiness with my work/home balance. Three years ago I was devastated by losing my job. Today I turned down the opportunity to accept my former position which has been added into the city budget again.
I didn't turn it down based on fear of losing it again. I turned it down because I am happy when I go to work and I am happy when I come home from work. I have freedom and flexibility to choose my hours. I can take time off when needed. I can be creative at my job. I find solutions for clients that they are pleased with and I have fun doing it.
When I first found my current employer I was weary because I felt it was a step down on the career ladder from what I had been working towards for 15 years. I quickly grew to love it. Over time I was given much more responsibility and the job began to change. After the unfortunate death of my supervisor I was promoted to a new position and took over where he left off. I am grateful to have had the opportunity to discover something new. It wouldn't have occurred without the setbacks I trudged through. I met new people, worked at jobs I would never want again and discovered who I am and what truly matters to me. It isn't just the money or health benefits - it is satisfaction. Hence my original paragraph - much good comes from crap. I may have gone through a dark and crappy time but I emerged - just like a mushroom.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
I also feel like I just woke up the inner-Nikki. By that, I mean the me that used to be me prior to being 30-somethingish. The me who was more wanton and spontaneous. I feel so frustrated with life events that are outside of my control that I have just had to start accepting them for what they are and move on in spite of what that may mean. Changes are coming. Not sure when but they are. It's rather like forecasting a storm by the feelings in your bones. Mine is more like a storm in my head and heart that has been brewing for way too long. Grab an umbrella and hold on tight.
Sunday, May 27, 2012
All this lack of vision, has affected my reading ability and it also attacked my sense of doing anything. Perhaps that is also called depression or boredom, unsure which it was. This weekend I was so happy to have a three day weekend that I spent Saturday being completely selfish of my time. I spent the day doing something mindless and rather odd (according to my children). I was feeling crafty yet I just purged many of my "found" objects and sources of inspiration in my earlier cleaning frenzies. Luckily, I had a porcelain doll that happened to catch my good eye. Really. That just wasn't meant to be a stupid pun.
My neighbor just had a yard sale and she piled up the leftovers on the sidewalk with a "free" sign. While supervising my 10 year old son mow her lawn, I took the opportunity to dig through the discards. I rescued two strands of net lights for bushes (score!), two metal boxes which I have already began to alter into memento holders and a Victorian-style bride doll. She had seen better days. Her hair was in good shape but her stockings were yellowed; her face was dirty; and she seemed as if she had been played with instead of put on the shelf and left alone to collect dust as most dolls of this nature. Perfect for transforming into something more modern! I dyed her hair, added body jewelry and art, and completely overhauled her dress. I cut off the lace top and high collar - removed the long and puffy parts of the sleeves - added some color and fanciful decorations utilizing other found items from previous scavenging adventures.
Much like Cinderella morphing from an ember-tinged housecleaning slave this poor little bride has become the envy of all dolls stuck in the much fascinated about but ultimately boring and female-oppressed era. She now resembles more of a rockabilly chick. I was going for The Cigarette Girls Burlesque-inspired look. I think it was almost achieved. I am stoked. Now, I just have to figure out what to do with her. I don't think my husband appreciates having a tattooed and pierced doll on the mantle above the fireplace.
|This is obviously the before picture. |
My camera battery died before I could take a picture of her horrible up-do.
I think you can get the idea of what she looked like - rather conservative.
|In this one you can see her nose piercing and multiple earrings.|
|If you look hard you can see the butterfly tattoo on her leg and tattoos on her forearm.|
|I made the corset-style ties out of eye-hooks and latches that were in a sewing kit I purchased at an estate sale. I know they were old. The price tag was still on the card they were sewn onto - 19¢|
|This tattoo is my favorite since it goes against everything Victorian and prude. |
Too bad it doesn't show up well in this picture.